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  1. Introduction
  2. Getting Started & Assessment
    Description and Orientation
  3. Change, Growth and Letting Go
  4. My Life Script
  5. Nurturing Parenting
    Nurturing as a Lifestyle
  6. Nurturing Skills Rating Scale
  7. Cultural Parenting Traditions
    My Cultural Portrait
  8. Developing Spirituality in Parenting
    Ways to Increase Spirituality
  9. Making Good Choices
    Smoking and My Child's Health
  10. Families & Alcohol Use
  11. Families and Alcohol Use Questionnaire
  12. 12 Steps to Keeping Children Drug Free
  13. Self-Awareness Quiz
  14. Love, Sex, STDs and AIDS
  15. Dating, Love and Rejection
  16. Touch, Personal Space, and Date Rape
  17. Possessive and Violent Relationships
  18. Growth and Development of Children
    Children's Brain Development
  19. The Male and Female Brain
  20. Ages & Stages: Appropriate Expectations
  21. Ages & Stages: Infant Development
  22. Ages & Stages: Toddler Development
  23. Ages & Stages: Preschooler Development
  24. Ages & Stages: Skills Strips
  25. Feeding Young Children Nutritious Foods
  26. Toilet Training
  27. Keeping My Children Safe
  28. The Importance of Touch
    The Importance of Parent/Child Touch
  29. Infant & Child Massage (Refer to the Nurturing Book for Babies and Children)
  30. Developing Empathy
    Developing Empathy
  31. Getting My Needs Met
  32. Myths and Facts About Spoiling Your Children
  33. Recognizing and Understanding Feelings
    Helping Children Learn How to Handle Their Feelings
  34. "Feelings" Exercise
  35. Criticism, Confrontation and Rules for "Fair Fighting"
  36. Problem Solving, Decision Making, Negotiation and Compromise
  37. Managing and Communicating Feelings
    Understanding and Handling Stress
  38. Understanding and Expressing Anger
  39. Understanding Discipline
    Improving Self-Worth
  40. Measuring My Self-Worth
  41. Children's Self-Worth
  42. Ten Ways to Improve Children's Self-Worth
  43. Developing Personal Power in Children and Adults
  44. Helping Children Manage Their Behavior
  45. Understanding Discipline
  46. Developing Family Morals and Values
  47. Developing Family Rules
  48. Child Proofing Your Home
  49. Home Safety Checklist
  50. Safety Reminders by Age
  51. Rewards and Punishments
    Using Rewards to Guide and Teach Children
  52. Using Punishments to Guide and Teach Children
  53. Praising Children and Their Behavior
  54. Time Out
  55. Punishing Children's Inappropriate Behavior
    Why Parents Spank Their Children
  56. Verbal and Physical Redirection
  57. Ignoring Inappropriate Behavior
  58. Developing Nurturing Parenting Routines
    Establishing Nurturing Parenting Routines
  59. Nurturing Diapering and Dressing Routine
  60. Nurturing Feeding Time Routine
  61. Nurturing Bath Time Routine
  62. Nurturing Bed Time Routine
  63. Prenatal Parenting
    Changes in Me and You
  64. Body Image
  65. Keeping Our Bodies and Babies Healthy
  66. Health and Nutrition
  67. Fetal Development
  68. Foster and Adoptive Parents
    Foster & Adoptive Children: Attachment, Separation, and Loss
  69. Expectations on foster and Adopted Children
  70. Worksheet for Adoptive Parents
  71. Worksheet for Foster Parents
  72. ADDENDUM
    Parenting Resources
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Touch, Personal Space, and Date Rape

Hope4Families October 25, 2022

What are Date Rape Drugs?

These are drugs that are sometimes used to assist a sexual assault. Sexual assault is any type of sexual activity that a person does not agree to. It can include inappropriate touching, vaginal penetration, sexual intercourse, rape, and attempted rape. Because of the effects of these drugs, victims may be physically helpless, unable to refuse sex, and can’t remember what happened. The drugs often have no color, smell, or taste and are easily added to flavored drinks without the victim’s knowledge. There are at least three date rape drugs:

  • GHB (gamma hydroxybutyric acid)
  • Rohypnol (flunitrazepam)
  • Ketamine (ketamine hydrochloride)

Although we use the term “date rape,” most experts prefer the term “drug-facilitated sexual-assault.” These drugs have been used to help people commit other crimes, like robbery and physical assault, and have been used on both men and women.

What Do the Drugs Look Like?

  • GHB has a few forms that come in a liquid with no odor or color, white powder, and a pill.
  • Rohypnol Is a pill and dissolves in liquids. New pills turn blue when added to liquids. However, the old pills, with no color, are still available.
  •  Ketamine is a white powder.

What Effects Do These Drugs Have on the Body?

The drugs can affect you quickly. The length of time that the effects last varies. It depends on how much of the drug is taken and if the drug is mixed with other substances, like alcohol. Alcohol can worsen the drug’s effects and can cause more health problems. Also, people in their homes can make GHB, so you don’t know what’s in it.

GHB (gamma hydroxybutyric acid)

The symptoms of GHB include: relaxation, drowsiness, dizziness, nausea, problems seeing, unconsciousness (blackout), seizures, can’t remember what happened when drugged, problems breathing, tremors, sweating, vomiting, slow heart rate, dreamlike feeling, coma, death.

Rohypnol (flunitrazepam)

The symptoms of Rohypnol include: can’t remember what happened when drugged, lower blood pressure, sleepiness, muscle relaxation or loss of muscle control, drunk feeling, nausea, problems talking, difficulty with motor movements, loss of consciousness, confusion, problems seeing, dizziness, confusion, stomach problems.

Ketamine (ketamine hydrochloride)

The symptoms of ketamine include: hallucinations, lost sense of time and identity, disordered perceptions of sight and sound, feeling out of control, impaired motor function, problems breathing, convulsions, vomiting, out-of-body experiences, memory problems, dreamlike feelings, numbness, loss of coordination, aggressive or violent behavior, and slurred speech. 

Is Alcohol a Date Rape Drug?

While GHB, Rohypnol, and Ketamine are considered “date rape drugs,” there are other drugs that affect judgement and behavior, and can put a person at risk for unwanted or risky sexual activity. Alcohol is one of those drugs. When a person is drinking alcohol:

  • It’s harder to think clearly and evaluate a potentially dangerous situation.
  •  It’s harder to resist sexual or physical assault.
  •  Drinking too much alcohol can cause blackouts and memory loss.

How Can I Protect Myself From Being a Victim?

  • Don’t accept drinks from other people, except trusted friends.
  • Open containers yourself.
  • Keep your drink with you at all times, even when you go to the bathroom or have a friend watch your drink.
  • Don’t share drinks.
  • Don’t drink from punch bowls or other large, common, open containers. They may already have drugs in them.
  • Don’t drink anything that tastes or smells strange. Sometimes, GHB tastes salty.
  • Have a non-drinking friend with you to make sure nothing happened.

If You Think that You Have Been Drugged or Raped…

  • Go to the police station or hospital right away.
  • Get a urine test as soon as possible. The drugs leave your system quickly. Rohypnol leaves your body 72 hours after you take it. GHB leaves the body in 12 hours. Don’t urinate before getting help.
  • Don’t douche, bathe, or change clothes before getting help. These things may give evidence of the rape.
  • You can also call a crisis center or a hotline to talk with a counselor. One national hotline is the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE or Text “START” to 88788. Feelings of shame, guilt or fear and shock are normal. It is important to get counseling from a trusted professional.

For more information… 

For more information on date-rape drugs, contact the National Women’s Health Information Center at 800-994-9662 or the following organizations:

Food and Drug Administration, OPHS, HHS

Hotline: 800-332-4010 or 888-463-6332 (Consumer Information); 

Web: www.fda.gov 

National Institute on Drug Abuse, NIH, HHS

Hotline: 800–662-4357 or 800-662-9832 (Spanish-Language Hotline);

Web: www.drugabuse.gov

Office of National Drug Control Policy

Phone: 800–666–3332 (Information Clearinghouse);

Web: www.whitehousedrugpolicy.gov/index.html 

Men Can Stop Rape

Phone: 202-265-6530;

Web: www.mencanstoprape.org

National Center for Victims of Crime

Phone: 800-394-2255; 

Web: www.ncvc.org

Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network

Phone: 800-656-4673 (656-HOPE);

Web: www.rainn.org

Try This…

Share this information with a friend. What are you going to do differently when going out on a date?